I supposedly retired a year and a half ago. But that sucked in many ways. Boredom and complacency were probably the biggest set backs. Along the way, Tina and I had many discussions about the idea of remodeling our home. Money, hassle, process, annoyances, etc. were the usual topics.
We said yes, yes to letting me transform this home. It sort of reminds me of the time, I convinced Tina to let me start my own business. That worked out well, btw. So I decided to hire a designer. Not a furniture store designer but a professional accredited interior designer. It was a difficult process but I found a match. Someone with talent and a particular design taste that matched this house and my vision.
The designer, was initially hired to help us with two bathrooms and a few ideas beyond that. Eventually it became “we need to keep Tom busy.” Her words.
So the project advanced into many other areas. What began to happen is cohesiveness. This house is becoming very cohesive. Every space and element leads and supports a journey and a satisfaction. The cohesiveness is because we trusted our designer. We continue to do so.
What is the Idea of Doing? Probably the reality of how much I have done. Retirement takes many forms. My expectation of a “normal” retirement, if there is such a thing, is that it’s boring. Not cool.
The idea transformed into reality. Lot’s of choices, challenges, frustrations, exuberance, crazy cool shit, you name it. But the thing is, I had to become a builder, electrician, plumber, painter, etc. I tore down ceilings and walls and completely altered the interior of this home.
The benefit of the idea and doing is the transference of the idea into reality. It was and is stressful. I had to learn quite a bit and had to make some goofy decisions. Don’t regret it. Not at all.
Probably the most important part of this story is I found a few people whom I could depend upon. I found some real talent and wonderful souls to assist and facilitate the goal of making my home, super cool.
I am immensely proud to be retired, yet not retired… Find that, be that.